I need help! I am gay and my boyfriend is very good friends with his ex. I would be ok with that but my bf is 45 and his ex is 25 and about 3 years ago my bf had an affair with this kid on the guy he was seeing then. They didnt have a good relationship to begin with. My problem is that I dont trust this situation, they talk at least 2 times a day and go out to eat, he comes over to my bf's house and visits or does his laundry. It is a huge sore spot in our relationship. I even get upset when he calls on the phone (happens every time were toghether) when I am with him. I feel that he is closer to him than to me sometimes. How do I let this go and get over being so jealous.