You know that saying that the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence? What you're seeing over there is just a reflection of what you already have, with the "drab" spaces colored in by your own imagination. Unless you're totally "done" with your current beau, that's all it can be since we all base our future aspirations for romance upon past experience. The non-contact phone/internet kind of thing you have going on right now allows you to run rampant with your own brushstrokes, but in the end the picture you paint will probably look alot like the one you already have, so what's the point? Your exploits sound like the Pina Colada song brought to life.