A:without communication there is basically nothing left. go with your gut...if it tells you divorce then do what you need to do. as long as you have given it your all thru counseling or whatever then you should be able to do what you need to without guilt. who knows maybe if you go thru with it she may decide that she wants to try a bit harder and if she doesn't then thats on her. just think about it which i'm sure you already have been. good luck with whatever you decide to do
