how long should i be in a relationship be4 i could decide to move in??????????
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Hi, ---------- I believe you mean: "How much time do I need before I decide to move in to live together with my boyfriend ?". If that's what you ment than: There is no accurate answer..... each "case" ( = relations) stands for it's own merrits. Some can do it after a day, some after a month, some after several months, some after a year.... and some need even more..... If he is a person you trust, if he cares (love) about you, is true and honest to you, if you are attracted to him and if you feel he is "worth it" go for it (regardless how much time you are together). ----------- Best regards,
Liz~
I read your other question where you ask how long you should know someone before you sleep with them. You are talking about having sex for the first time and moving in with someone in the same period of time. You have never even been intimate with this man. If you give up your own apartment to be with someone that you probably don't know very well, you could find yourself in a real predicament. Wait at least 6 months before you have a man move in with you. You need to know him very well.
that really depends on the commitment in both behalfs and the amount of time you are both spending together. in my opinion no sooner than 6 months to a year. good luck!
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Liz,
I agree that you should take time before moving in with a man. You need to know him very well. What are his habits, ambitions, goals, views on a lot of subjects, his values etc. You have to find out that you are compatible with each other, that you'll get along most of the time and that you have chemistry together. Finding out these things about another person takes about 2 years.
Is he a good person? Does he have any criminal records? How many times has he been married? How old are his kids? What are his commitments ? Does he have a stable job and make enough money so you both will enjoy a certain kind of lifestyle?
Moving in with someone you don't really know well is a form of suicide, you could get hurt physically if he has a history of spousal abuse, alcoholism, drug abuse.
Please don't be in a hurry to do this. Enjoy your freedom, know him well, get to know his friends, relatives and co-workers. Don't be in such a hurry. That will come to that point. The decision to move in is between the 2 of you if you are both comfortable with each other.
Take care.
Don't rush into that. Make sure that you know each other really well and that the intentions of both of you are good. Make sure you are compatible, not only relationship wise but roommate wise as well. Just be sure to think it all over first.
Don't move in with a man. Get a ring and and a date. Why buy the cow if he can get the milk for free? Think about it...........
The past, its done,its unchangeable. move on.
went ever ya get married!!!
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