Thank you all for all the advice that was provided by all yall here on YEDDA.... I just wanted to give yall an update...I got a job been having it for a year now...passed the probation period....WHEW....that's a relief...I'm in school going part time with the hopes of starting my own business....My son is doing great ....Oh yea and the guy he's fine at least from what he tells me...We has talked about getting back together at times...I'm not ready for that anymore I don't think...lol And he still haven't been back to work......Thanks for all ya'll advice.....I appreciate it soooo much.....MUAH!!!