Okay, so here's the story...I have been dating ...

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Hi,
People are not aware to the fact that there is a 3rd gender.....  yes......  Male, female, and 3rd gender that is something inbetween a male and afemale.  Those people are accepted in several communities (the Eskimo, in Thailand, and far east) and in certain places they are considers Holly persons with special abilities.  There abundance is very low (some 1-2 % if my memory serves me well).  I read, long ago a book or an article names: "The 3rd Gender" was very interesting and new for me. 
So I believe that Alex is felongs to the 3rd gender.  What to do now is a decision you should take.... whatever you decide you should take into acount all the possible consequences. 
Best regards,

You dated an entire month without knowing that she/he had a penis??  Wow..  I thought those days were long gone.  Anyway..  Are you bisexual?  (You had to have a clue) I mean the only thing that bothered you was the fact that her/his penis was bigger than yours and not the fact that she had a penis?  Are you kidding me?  You know the old saying..  "Whatever trips your trigger"  If you enjoy being with men that's your buisness.  The fact that you ran across one that's got a penis that's bigger than yours..  Well...   That's life!!  Good luck