Regreting sex

K-

I can only imagine that you are asking this because you are unmarried. I didn't regret it until I became a Christian. GOD is gracious to forgive.

That being said, I am sure that there non-Monotheistic individuals that regret this. I know that you will hear from them.

A question to ask yourself is, how do a feel about the idea of marrying someone who has had 30 (or make up a number) partners.

If you contract an STD, I promise that you will regret the act. Condoms are 100% safe when they, and your sexual organs, remain unused.

JayR

i personally think you should wait to have sex untill your married. but yes i regret my first time to this day. some boys dont know the word no.........

I've had sex for the first time when I was about 16 and a half. It was with my first boyfriend. It was a really nice cool experience and I don't regret it at all. We never end up marring or staying together, we split up about 3 years after we started dating.

I think that the right thing is to make sure that this is what you want and that you aren't doing it to impress a guy or out of peer pressure. Different people feel like they are ready for sex in different times in their lives, just make sure that you are doing it because you want to.

I personally don't believe that sex should be saved for the person you will choose to marry, but I do think that you should have sex with someone you like or love and who will be sensitive and attractive and fun to make this a good experience for you.

if you are just thinking about sex.don t do it because all of your friends are telling you they are haveing sex,i was 17 my first time ,it was over fast and i wish i had took the relationship a better way,good luck take it slow,their is plenty of time to have sex.its love you need not sex.also it love you need not lust.god bless you.

lilly's Answer was beautifully-put, And I would just like to just add one thing. If you have taught yourself to come quickly, then the chances are that's what you'll do in your first sexual-togetherness. A woman not only needs lots of Foreplay to enhance her sexual arousal, and reach her orgasm.. So you'll end up feeling like a Sexual Champion and she'll end up feeling sexually and emotionally used. Take sometime to get to know your sexuality and more so a woman's lovely sexuality.