Recommendations for taking a woman on a date

Think “emotionally stirring” and maybe even “dangerous”.

Roller coasters are great.

Something physical where you are the expert is also a great move.  Do you like to rollerblade or ride a bike? Perfect.

Think about the unpredictability, danger and excitement that women love about “bad boys”… these are great ways to give her the same feelings and emotions without being a jerk yourself.

Remember… it’s not the “bad” that she likes… it’s those qualities that coincidentally tend to go with so many bad boys that give her the FEELINGS OF EXCITEMENT.

If its a first date or a blind date than meeting for drinks somewhere NICE for the first time is the way to go. This way you can figure out if the two of you are compatible without having to sit through a three course meal. If theres good conversation and you enjoy the persons company then its the perfect time to set up plans for a second date.  Like a comedy show and dinner or dinner and concert or just dinner.  Have a few ideas in mind and while having those drinks you could say "I heard so and so is hilarious. He's gonna be up at ____________ Comedy Club this weekend, you wanna go check it out?" Or if you find that she likes classic rock you could say 

"There's this really great local cover band playing at _________, 

you wanna go check them out? (and start with some dinner)" If theres

no conversation or you figure out that this person isnt for you, then you only wasted a half hour and ten bucks on drinks! Just remember if you do like this person, dont get hammered and show her the drunk idiot you may become. Have a few drinks, conversate, find out what interests her so you can plan a great second date, dont wait a week to call her, and cut the evening short (one - two hours is just enough time to find out if you like each other enough for a second date).

If its not a first date than hopefully you know what this person likes and dislikes.  If shes deathly affraid of rollercoasters or carnival rides, dont take her there.  If not thats a great idea. A guy once knew that I loved to play ski-ball so he took me to Chuckie Cheese and I had so much fun. Arcades, go-carts, bumber boats, the zoo, apple orchard's, can all be fun dates.  I have also enjoyed going to plays! Especially around Christmas Time when all the local thearters are having christmas plays or the Radio City Christmas Show with the Rockettes! Fireworks are fun around July 4th and Halloween parties, and pro sports games. Even if shes not a sports fanatic, games are always a fun time!

I would suggest a coffee shop on a first date. It's quiet enough that you can get to know one another and not expensive that you can foot the bill. =)

I just look at a girl, try to understand her, ask some questions about what she likes, not saying anything about goding on a date or so. And when I have made a mental picture of her I make up something that she would really like. Some people talk about things they really like to do, some things are not so big so you can surprise them with them.

If you need some personal advice you can ask a question on
MeTarzanYouJane free dating via the contact form.

You can ask her out for dinner or pool party or any beach party which you know will make her feel comfortable. You can send her any invitation cards mentioning the venue and the occasion.