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Ratio of success in getting dates

When it comes to approaching women and getting dates, is “one out of ten” a good ratio of success?

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Posted 2006-12-20T01:04:31Z
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David DeAngelo

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This is a very interesting combination of questions...

First of all, what would be so bad about only having 1 out of 10 women go out with you?

Just think of it...

You could make 10 women feel good by
approaching them and boosting their self esteem, and one of them would wind up going out with you.

You'd probably spend about 60 minutes of time, and about 147 calories of energy (try a Zone bar or something if you begin to feel tired).

Investment: One hour plus 147 calories

Return: A date with an unusually attractive woman.

I'd play that game with you all day long.

I think you see where I'm going with this.

The problem most guys have is that they imagine the 9 times that they don't wind up with a date as being "cold, hard, shut down" style rejections.

And unless you have no class or tact at all, this just isn't going to happen.

At a recent seminar I gave, my friend Orion shared his perspective when it comes to meeting women. (I've personally seen this guy get 25 women's phone numbers in three days... with my own two eyes)

His objective is "to make women smile". He likes to see if he can make a woman smile when he starts talking to her. Then, if she's the kind of woman that he'd like to date, he gets her information.

Think of it! He wants to find out if SHE'S THE KIND OF WOMAN HE LIKES by seeing if he can make her smile before he decides if she's the kind of woman he'd like to date.

Interesting new way of looking at things.

To answer your first question, OF COURSE YOU CAN DATE WOMEN THAT ARE MORE PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE THAN YOU!

Look around... you'll see all kinds of stunning women with average guys. It's actually the rule, rather than the exception.

And try making women smile when you meet them... and find out if they're beautiful on the INSIDE as well as the outside before you choose to see them again.

Posted 2006-12-22T02:49:42Z

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