Well, attractiveness really has very little to do with how hard a break up may be. Sure, we are very looks oriented, but we aren't entirely shallow, you know. We may not show it as much as it might seem, but break ups hurt us. I often think men are more emotionally hurt by break ups than women are. Women seem to reach a point where they've made up their minds and that's just that. But men, we linger, we still want you, we still care and love you. We just don't seem to find closure very easily in these cases.