I'll be honest, while Valentine's Day is not really a tradition where I come from, any excuse to get a "gift" sounds great to me! I think that sexy lingerie and a night of spoiling one another with massages, a home cooked meal, and other secret pleasures, sounds like a dream come true. I don't know why any guy would take it the "wrong" way. Is there a wrong way when it comes to lingerie? If you really want to give him something, maybe cook for him and give him a little lotion set with a promise of a massage later. Be romantic and make him feel wanted. Most of all, have fun!