This question is part of my other question that I have posted for response.. I have known this woman from Rhode Island for a year and a half and we have become very close. I have met her three times and she is such a wonderful person.. She told me very intimate things on a voice mail last Sunday, but she has a habbit of scrutinizing my emails and asking many, many questions to the point where I feel she mistrusts me.. She did it again last Thursday and I got angry and told her that I didn;t appreciate being called a liar and that I cannot be with someone who mistrusts me... I told her that maybe we are not the soul mates we thought and that I should just stay by myself if I am not trusted... She stopped writing , texting, emailing, and calling from that point on and has NOT answered any of my contacts.. Since she lives in Rhode Island and I am in NJ, I have no way of contacting her.. I would like in a last ditch effort to drive up to her and explain in person my true feelings for her face to face.. I would have to stop by her work to do so since I do not know her wherabouts after work.. My question would be Is this a good idea to drive four hours in an effort to show I care making the visit very short but to the point?? Also, I was thinking about the aftermath of such a visit... Once a person thinks of what has just happened, wouldn't they realize that when someone drives four hours to make contact, that would show caring and true love?? What do you think?? Thanks for all of your time!! Appreciate it!!