Queer question

some may say a person was born being gay, and others will say that the person makes a decision... either way, it's the life they choose and should be respected like anyone else.

The same that makes a heterosexual a heterosexual.  My guess is that you really care deep down inside otherwise you would not have taken the time out of your busy day to pose such a question.  Anyway, as the other poster said, treat them and respect them as you would like to be treated.  

Personally I find this question queer however the word queer in it's original intent is.......

American Heritage Dictionary - Cite This Source - Share This queer       (kwîr)  Pronunciation Key 
adj.   queer·er, queer·est

1. Deviating from the expected or normal; strange: a queer situation.

Nuff said, mind you if your talking about homosexuals they are not queer they not different from the norm.  And to answer that question I think you'd have to know what makes someone heterosexual.  The better question is what makes a person in general, or the human species in general special and so above it all they we need to make someone else seem subpar it is our differences that we should celebrate.     Yeah MAN  WHICH IN IT'S SELF IS ALL INCOMPASSING MALE, FEMALE , JUST BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why do men go gay?  I hate to admit this being a former feminist, but I have seen the way some women treat men.  I wouldn't want this on my conscience but I have seen some women who could get men stirred up sexually and then give them the cold shoulder.  They turn to other men. 

I happen to like men.  I work fine with them, my boss is a man (I'm using his company computer in my off time) and he's always been a teddy bear.  His wife, Treena was the one who hired me, and he paid me more than she wanted to.  I can always talk to Mike and Treena, but often I find it difficult to talk to feminists.

OK, I'm strange, but I plan to stay this way, married to a straight and happy man, and one day we'll have a family.  When we do, I will go home to take care of my baby, but when I'm strong enough to go back to work, I know I'll have a job waiting for me.

Not everyone would do this.