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Hi,

well in my opionin you shouldn't try to get him to stop you should be trying to join in the fun with him. if it is porno's that get him going don't worry about that at least there is something that helps so just be supportive and join in the fun. the more relaxed he is and comfortable you make him the more fun you will have with him instead of being lest out.

I think you should use it in your advantage. Rent a movie and once you two are intimate  play it on .See how he reacts  if he still doesn't have an erection then you have a problem and you two have to work it out. If he does then it seems like your sex life is missing something. Spice it up , try sex toys , lingerie etc.

I saw with my own eyes recently, my man was completely drunk and incapable of an erection but he was very horny. I can't do anything with a drunk penis. However, he managed to jack off and have an orgasm with little to no hardness. I'd look into his diet and try to figure out WHY he's not getting hard. Horniness doesn't always mean erection, not if there is a dysfunction. 

 Definitely make sure it isn't due to drugs or alcohol and work from there. It's not always emotional. 

He's the problem and not you. That lame ass excuse is so old and worn. Fight fire with fire, go and buy you some "toys" and the next time he wants to have sex. Well, just tell him you're not interested and go grab your toys. Let him see what he does to you by doing it back to him. Hell, rent some porn that you enjoy. Turn about is fairplay