So I have this awesome job right now. Im a personal Assistant for a Herbalist. We joke around. go out to lunch together, i mean i see my boss more than i see anyone else, i love his family, our cilents, i have been really happy with it all. The only downside for working fro him, is that i work for his lawyer too...who is his best friend. My boss is going throuh a terrbile battle with his complex association on trying to build a wheelchair safe enviorment for his son whom is completely disabled. So anything to help his family i am all for. This battle has been going on for years on end (about 5).
His lawyer Tom does not like me...for no reason at all..and im not kidding. He just cant find one thing to complain about...he finds multi things. And its every day. He flipps out over nothing, if the computer is being slow he blames it on me and storms out of my office...he curses infront of my clients, throws papers, hes very disrespectful.
So, because we have been going through the court process, i havent had that much time to catch up on my work here at ny office..cleaning...packing medication..sending things out...e-mailing clients...all that goood stuff. So, my boss suggested that i should bring a friend in 2 weeks out of the month, to help me catch up, and trust me...there is a lot to do here...so i envite my best friend Rian to go to work with me...she comes in...and this girl is beautiful, big boobs, tall, just all around pretty. So she starts comming in, Tom the lawyer asked me and her to type some documents for him, and there was about 4 of them that were 10 pages long each, so we both went on seperate computers, did the work, turned it in to him that day. He comes back the next day and starts yelling at me saying that i messed the whole thing up, that i left out a lot of important stuff....i had no idea what he was talking about. When i saw the document, it was the one that Rian had typed for him. I didnt want him to treat her like he treats me so i covered for her, i said that i was sorry, and that ill fix it that its not a problem.
Her 2 weeks were up for the month, i was competley caught up on all my work. So the first day tha tTom noticed that Rian wasnt there, he kept asking about her, on some occations when she was there, i would catch him looking down her shirt, he would be so sweet to her...even though she did a crappy job..and i have been doiing this for almost a year now.
So Tom keeps telling my boss that he should fire me and keep Rian...and i know that the only reason why he says this is because of her titts..not because shes a good worker. Tom is 60 years old...Rian is 20..he makes himself look like a fool when he continues to act like a dog around her.
Tom has stated this to me and my boss a number of times, and its getting to the point to where i cant stand him anymore...he hovers over me when im typing...treats me like crap, and has no respect for me or women in gerneral. My boss always sticks up for me, telling me that he would never fire me...that he likes me wayyy too much to do that to me. And i trust him on that, but just have someone tell you that really hurts my feelings. This man thinks that everyone is a criminal because for years all he did was defend them. So he automaticlty sees me as a bad person....but i guarentee you if i looked like her I wouldnt be posting this. I mean dont get me wrong, im not bad looking..tall..brown hair...grteen eyes...120 lbs. i just dont flaunt what i have. thats just not who i am.
Its getting to the point to where im getting over emotional about it and i dont know how to go about this, i want to tell him off but im affraid that its going to ruin my relationship with my boss..not only on a professional matter...but in our friendship as well...hes like my second dad...and treats me like im his daughter. I dont want to damage that by telling Tom off, but i really do not know how to go about this anymore. Can any one help.
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