Hi Melodys, ------- You are not going to like my answer but I have to tell you what I think. No, you don't love your boyfriend and you have no respect to him (if you lover him and had respect to him you wouldn't cheat !). So please don't say that you don't want to loose him..... Sure you can't even think of pretending he is the father (that is out of question !). If you want to have the baby leave your boyfriend and raise your child in a honest way. I truely appologise for being direct and blunt. ------- Best regards,