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i m 19yr of age ill b 20 soon i have a job my boyfriend has a job we've knew each other for a yr and been together for a yr....we both have career set for us in the long runs...we both work and pay ours dues...we want to have a child of our own but i m afraid wat my mother nd brother wud think since my brother havin his baby in 2 months...he's 28 gonna b 29 in august...he wasnt marry wen his grlfriend was pregnant...they decided to get marry and tol me at 1st and then tol my mom my mother took it very emotinally becuze she wud of never exspected sumin like dat wud happen and she wud always tell me dat she hope dat doesnt happens to her or embrass in dat way...i didnt go to the doctor yet becuze its to earlee to find out if i m pregnant or not...but if i m wat shud i du and wat is rite?...for me and my boifriend situation?


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I say live your life as you want.  If you and your boyfriend love one another and want to have a child, and your finacially and emotinaly able to love and nurture that child its your choice.  Not your mothers. It sounds like your mother loves you, she would also love your baby.

 
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
Check if you are pregnant and if you are than tell your family.  The precedence of your brother will only help you (he did the same and was accepted).  You are an adult and as such you are responsible to what you do.   If your boyfriend really loves you and cares about you he should marry you and avoid that embarrasment from you and your family. 
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thank you so much i feel way better i showed my boifriend wat u have send me and i feel like a weight came off my chest i totally wud tek as consideration and my boifriend said its rite...ndi tol him dat is the rite think to do...speacilly for the embrassment...my mother is old fashion she believes in marry 1st then have a family....we both no wat we want...but my mother eyes i m young to her maybe becuze i m the youngest compare to my big brother like i sed ones gonna b 29 nd the other wud be 27..sooo its like a big situation...and my brothers isnt easy or my mother. they wud definitly thinks its an embrassment...but my boifriend she wud totally supports us she already tol my boifrind if dats wat u want to do then i wud totally support u.....and my mother isnt like dat my mother is gonna b 50 soon in december and his mother is in her 40's .....and my boifriend is the big son , 1st grandson nd the oldest out of his brothers and sister....but we no wat we wany...but we're just worried wat my family wud say bout me...becuze he nos how my family is and how there are with me.....speacilly he's m 1st boifriend....

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thank you so much i feel way better i showed my boifriend wat u have send me and i feel like a weight came off my chest i totally wud tek as consideration and my boifriend said its rite...ndi tol him dat is the rite think to do...speacilly for the embrassment...my mother is old fashion she believes in marriage 1st then have a family....we both no wat we want...but in my mother eyes i m young to her maybe becuze i m the youngest compare to my big brothers like i sed ones gonna b 29 nd the other wud be 27..sooo its like a big situation...and my brothers isnt easy or my mother either... they wud definitly thinks its an embrassment...and wud kill me with wods which i will hurt.....but my boifriend mother  wud totally supports us she already tol my boifrind if dats wat u want to do then i wud totally support u.....and my mother isnt like dat my mother is gonna b 50 soon in december and his mother is in her 40's  early.....and my boifriend is the big son , 1st grandson nd the oldest out of his brothers and sisters....but we no wat we want...but we're just worried wat my family wud say bout me...becuze he nos how my family is and how there are with me.....speacilly he's my 1st boifriend....he's a darling and he just wanna do wats rite...

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thank you soo much for ur answer....i  really aapreciate

Posted 2009-06-20T14:55:34Z

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