I think most men have sex lives that don't look like porn movies at all, and a lot of them wouldn't want to have it either. Otherwise a lot more men would pursue a career in it. Also, I find everyone has their likes and dislikes, just as with food. I believe voyeurism is just another fetish, one of so many... But do consider that looking at a pre-recorded movie can never be considered voyeurism. It doesn't have the added value of the chance of getting caught, which I think is the main reason for voyeurism. Just like rape is about violence, not about sex. I think the makers of porn know about all these fetishes and use it to their advantage: the movies have something for everyone (sorry, every man). I also think a movie of 'romantic sex' can be just as good for most men, and women would like to watch it too. Some female film makers actually do make 'porn for women' (but then of course call it 'erotic films'). It's just my opinion, I can't really speak for all men.