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why cant i stop being preocupied with wether or not my boyfriend looks at porn?he cherishes me and would never cheat...for some reason i am still hurt at the fact he looks at porn.its just magazines,not internet.and we have sex 3 times a day for over 6 months now.why am i so threatend? i dont want to make him resent me over this so i keep it to myself.i find myself wanting to "booby trap" the porn so i know for sure when he looks at it.so far i have done that once and im not proud.how can i get over this?guys,any advice?


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What is your fear of porn? Were you taught this is dirty and good men don't look at it? Do you fear your man thinks of other women? Well he does. Even if he never looked at porn when he has sex with you he can be thinking of another woman. Maybe when you have sex 3 times a day it with the girl at the cafe, or 7-11, or one he works with. A man can see a sexy woman dressed like he likes and get her image in his mind then jump your bones and nail you to the bed post, and all the time be thinking about the girl that got him turned on. Sometimes it can be an old GF. See porn is just something they look at because women look different and if he can see it then it might not be such a big deal and not spend a lot of time thinking about what she looks like. I might suggest you look at some porn and see what it is that bothers you rather than take someones word for it. I know women who love it and will share it with their men, watch it together and when it's open then no one needs to sneak around with it.

 

Pornography is a deceptive view of intimacy. InnerGold is helping people world wide who are struggling with pornography and sexual addiction issues. There is good reason to be concerned about him watching porn. A lot of the people we are dealing with started by watching just a little here and there but it increased to the point that it is now affecting every aspect of their life and they are in treatment trying to get control of this issue. 

Sex addiction causes great pain as seen on many newspapers, magazines and TV about their struggle. I am not saying he is going to become an addict. I am saying there are very, very few people that can watch porn and not turn to some sort of an addiction. Hence why people like David Duchovny and many others entering rehab.

Again, I think you have good reason to be concerned about the viewing of porn.

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