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Playing with my heart?

My friend knows I like him. Sometimes, he calls to see if I'm available, suggests we hang out, and then I won't hear from him for days. What does this mean?

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You already answered your own question. He's your friend! Men and women do not think the same. You've explained a friendship and the way most guys treat a friendship! It doesn't sound like he's "twisting" and "manipulating" you-that's the way women think. He's just a friend, if you want that to change then you have to talk to him. May work for you and may not! Sorry and good luck!


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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


No offence please but that means that he is playing with your feelings and phones you only when it is convinient to him or when he doesn't have anything better to do.  If he is your "friend" he should be close enough to you to enable you to discuss that issue with him.  Choose the setting, prepare what and how you are going to say it, and tell him, exactly, in details, how you feel and what you think of it.  Tell him that being a friend he is not supposed to play with your feelings and should be consistent and true with you.  You can hint to him that if he goes one step further you'll be there for him.  If you don't want to discuss it with him, how about refusing to hang out next time when he is calling you..... (telling him that you don't like to be a substitute player of the team !).
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It may mean that he's playing with your feelings but it might also mean that he's not really aware of the affect his behavior has on you. I suggest you confront him and straighten this issue out. I don't think you'll stay friends for very long if this continues so you have nothing to lose. Just get to the bottom of this as soon as possible and I think you'll find that you will feel much better even if it doesn't work out the way you would like.


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Ask yourself this question do you feel that there is a connection between you two?   If there is plan it out and make some moves on him if not why destroy a good friendship you never know what may come around next time!!


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It seems as though he cares about your friendship. He still wants to hang with you but not too much bc he doesn't want you to think he cares about you more than 'just a friend'.


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