Personality Disorder, I think my husband has a personality disorder, but I'm not sure??

Thank you for the replies, but I have tried calling the police, when he looms over me and looks at me, like he's going to hit me', only once, and because of that, it made things worse. He won't give me money if I do anything he doesn't like, and tells me so. There are no abuse ceneters here in Long Island, everyone has alot of money and he very well known in the area.Other people , well, my brother told me that my situation is not good for his health", and that he can no longer be in touch w/ me(and that's been a year now) my friends , don't really care or believe it, my parents are fed up w/ me and have their own problems and alot of the times, my friends want to be friends with him, since he can help them out when they want good reservations at 1 of his restaurants, my best friend ended going out w/ him, and my other best friend, tells him things I do, and I get yelled at for it. People who do not really know me tell him everything about me, whatever they can, and other friends really don't know what to say or do, strangers tell him" I saw your wife and daughter out, and your daughter was wearing'no socks when it was cold out, or" your daughter was wearing boots when I saw her out with your wife". They want to get in good w/ him. And my daughter,she wants to be w/ him,and she starts yelling to stop screaming, and then he looks at me, and say" you see what you do to your own child"!!! You don't love or care about her, your a bad person, your a zero!!! My daughter feels obligated to be with both of us and sticks up for him, I cannot say anything to her about it, if I do, she starts hysterically crying and if he hears that, forget it!!! He would never kill himself, he thinks way to highly of himself, and he would never kill me, because he knows that he would go to jail, by now, if he touches me. Thank you for your help, but I don't think I can do anything. I think I have to leave, because 1 thing is true, nothing I can do will ever be right.That's why I said, I don't know what to do, I really don't. I don't want to leave my daughter, she will end up hating me, but maybe that might be better than living like this!!!

So, besides going to a shelter, there is nothing else I can really do, right.?? I cannot take my daughter, no judge would allow it because she has been living in the same place for 11 years, and now goes to a private school(Greenvale), in Greenvale, NY., and the judges are usually not game for a child to move out of the place they know and grew up in.O, my daughter is 11.Even if he abuses me, and in front of her, to a court it doesn't matter as long as the child is not being abused, his abuse is severe, psychological abuse, and I mean, severe. When he does, or says something, he looks at me and says" you see what you did"!!! Your a sick person, your a baaaaad person, you have something wrong w/ you, and I will just be sitting there not saying anything??? I don't understand what he is doing to me, or why???? And my daughter is sitting right there, ignoring everything, unless he screams, then she says' to stop screaming".

I asked the question because I needed help, because I do not know what to do, and if you can send me the money to go to a therapist, I will go,I can send you the details , that would be very nice of you, thanks, and thanks for the rediculous answer,  if you do not want to help, like other people have, please do not waste my time writing me.My husband doesn't know he has a problem,that's what happens when you have mental illness. Most times, you do not know it.I've been abused for 13 years, I know what I know, and you haven't walked in my shoes, so please do not send me a stupid reply , it wasn't meant for people like you, it was meant for people who are helpful!!!

Why is an ass like you a navy doc.??? If you write me again, I will report you. I have written a question that is serious to me, it is not for ignorant,narcassistic, idiots like you!!!