I thought lillys answer was awesome.. went on a few datesbefore and after... very passionate.. last night the girl was begging me to... I told her lets wait until we can both do more than a quicky.. explained all my concerns.. found out she was in the same boat..She has waited for 1.5 years... was relieved that I was in the same position.. so probably will get my brains screwed out Sunday and be back to my old self. .. either way.... it will happen any day now again and I got my confidence back... Plus I started with a Really cute petite chick so.. I wont be so intimidated with my old size and performance... after we get comfortable I'm sure Ill be back to my old self again.. I'm glad that you pushed me in the right direction lilly. Ty. Now i can concentrate on us instead of being a machine again. It was good advice.