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Partner Having an Affair at work

What would you do if your partner had an affair with someone from work, but refuses to stop working there. Would you stay in the relationship?


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Can you accept a third party in your relationship? Where is the commitment? How would he feel if you also had a partner other than him where you work? I think the answers should be obvious.

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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


The main point is not where he works but the lack of trust....  What will prevent him from seeing her after finding a new job ? and who gurantees that he won't find a new girl at the new job ?......   It all comes down to trust and being faitfull.  Any good relation is based on 4 pillars: Trust + Openess + Communicastions + Respect..... If you want good relations you (both) have to re-built the trust between the two of you....  Without doing so your relation is in danger.  Don't focus on the place he works, better focus on the real issue (= trust).
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I am a Longs Drugs Store Historian) & I will help everyone who needs advice on: Relationship sittuations, Issues , many other things.

If that was happening the first thing I'd do , is secretly move out , do a dear Jhon Letter , divorce the person in who has commited adultary, never go back to the person no matter what they would promise , say etc.

 

If your partner refuses to get a new job I would get a new Partner 4 there is no love in a cheating relationship.

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