Your one and only 'best option' is staying in school, getting an education, and making yourself happy in a career of your choice!  I know for a 14 yr old, that sounds lame, but it is the absolute truth. Putting in 8 more years ( I know, an eternity ) of getting yourself on track will change your life for the better.  There are also a few benefits of sinking yourself into schoolwork 1) your parents will notice how bright and beautiful you are  2) with such model behavior comes more respect and perhaps more freedom ( because you've earned that trust ) 3) you'll be investing in YOURSELF!

Now, I hear too that communication is a problem right now.  Sometimes carefully handwriting a note ( that you can revise until perfectly said by you ) gives both parents and teen TIME to read and digest what's said without fighting before you make your thoughts known. Recordings to your parents work well too. Letters and recordings are great...if the reader needs to hear something over and over again and really listen to the writer, it can be done.

Give it a try!  It's a beginning...

Please stay in school...you're worth the effort!