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Parents arguing in front of child

I am in a very bad situation, basically my x and I argue all of the time in front of my daughter, I always ask him to stop yelling in front of her, but he doesn't. I would just leave, but cannot, because I will need to pick up something, or money he owes me. If I was more finacially secure, I wouldn't have to worry so much.He will not communicate with me whatesoever. It's been so bad that she is now treating me the same way, she has been hitting, punching me and throwing things at me. She is 11. She is doing all of the things he has done to me, and she knows how terrified of him, and that when she acts like that, I cannot call him, because it would only make matters worse, with him always, taking her side, and somehow turning it around to be my fault.I am thinking of giving him custody and just moving. It's been going on for 10 years, and I feel like I cannot go on living this way anymore. Can I give him temporary custody. ?I feel heartbroken to leave my daughter, but at this point, I do not know what else to do, I cannot call the police or got to court, because when he get's mad, he takes things out on me, doesen't give me my child support money, etc.He is abusive, and a powerful man, I would never win in court as he has all of the money in the world, I am suffering so bad, and I have no one  here, where I live to help me in any kind of way.I can't even date because he poisons everything I do.???


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You need to get control of your life. You have rights and by law he isn't allowed to bully you this way. You can't live your life in such fear. He has to pay you that money by law and i t isn't a favor you're asking of him. Be strong though I know it's hard.

You should really try not to fight in front of your daughter. Perhaps make sure she isn't around when you start these discussions. This doesn't sound like an easy situation but you can't let him manipulate you this way.

I wish you the best of luck.

Posted 2008-11-12T13:48:19Z

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