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i'm not comfortable with performing oral sex on my boyfriend, but i want to please him so should i do it?

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Live simply, love generously, care deeply,

speak kindly, leave the rest to God.

Relationships are supposed to be give and take, not take and take.  If your boyfriend does oral sex on you and you enjoy it and with no complaints about it, then it's only right to return the favor.  You said you want to please him so why don't you do it if it makes him happy.  I have a feeling that he pleases you in any way he can.

     Take care and enjoy.


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My Granny always said "The only thing I have to do in life is stay black and die"  so I guess the rest is cake.  Right?

What about oral sex makes your uncomfortable, was it the way you were raised, are you not sure about what your doing or if your pleasing your mate, does sex in general make you uncomfortable?  What about having a penis in your mouth makes you uncomfortable to begin with?  I personally love oral sex giving and receiving however what is a turn about it for me is that well for most men not all it brings them great pleasure and it's a huge turn on to have that affect on your mate.  However it may simply be that you dont want him ejaculating in your mouth and there are ways around that but to be quite honest you need to pinpoint what about it you don't enjoy and work from there.  If it's a cleanleness factor then bathe togather before hand.  And well if it comes down to it and  you just don't like it altogather then forgo it.  I mean you have to be honest with yourself and your mate and if you do something you do not want to your entire relationship it will only become a bone of contention, however prepare for it to be a bone of contention on his part as well that he's not getting what he wants.  But above all be honest with your self.


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I understand what everyone else is saying, but in this day and time with aids and herpes and all the other problems out there you might want to make sure the man you love isnt sick with anything.  If he's not and your still not comfortable with the notion of oral sex tell him about it.  And maybe you all together can figure out a way that doesnt make you uncomfortable to do it with him.  Work it out. 


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Thanks. That was really helpful. I told him that I didn't want him to perform on me, if i couldn't on him. I think I'm ready now. I guess now i'm jus worried about messing up or not. hehe.


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Live simply, love generously, care deeply,

speak kindly, leave the rest to God.

Since we are talking about oral sex,  I remembered an anecdote about two 80 year old couple.  The man told his friend that nowadays the only kind of sex they have is ORAL SEX.  The friend replied.  Oh yeah?  That's vey nice.  How do you do guys do it?  The old man answered.  Well, we make it a point to TALK  about sex everyday.   LOL.....


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Live simply, love generously, care deeply,

speak kindly, leave the rest to God.

Oh no, you can never mess up.  You'll just get better and better and better...................................................LOL


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