I think you have handled things in an exemplary manner. She is immature as you know and if she does grow up she will realise what she lost. In the meantime all you can do is let go and do your thing with a clear conscience.I know you love her but until she grows up of her own accord there is nothing else you can do. Good luck in finding someone else.You sound like a really nice guy who deserves it!
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