Women like to talk (gossip) about their "feelings" more than men, and are more "sensitive" them men are. Men are more likely to say "screw it" if you don't like it, or like me. Women will try to analize all of the corners of the issue. Women would do men a great service if they wouldn't try to expect men to react the same way as they do. Men are wirred differently than woman.
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