One BIG problem! can someone read and help me!

If anyone speaks badly of you, I can tell you ignoring what is said is always the best thing.  I know it is hard, but if you continue to chase after all the comments that are lies, then you are saying that what is said is true.  Ignore the comments and move on, trust me it will work.  Why are you emailing or texting this person?  MOVE ON means literally to move on and absolutely NO CONTACT with this person whatsoever or you are asking for it to continue, it really is up to you.  Refuse to talk about him or you or anything that has to do with either of you to anyone, if it relates to your past relationship.  Break free and stop playing into his hands and your so called friends. 

H, ------ You simply had the wrong boyfriend (childish, immature, bad character, no morals, no respect......). Why is he doing it only he knows..... there are several answers but the most probable one is that he expected more failed and no he is trying to hurt you (very childish !). You have 2 options: 1). Ignore him 2). Fight back and tell everyone that he is not a "man", shy as a little boy, hardly hold your hand,.... If you choose the 2nd option it will lead to a dirty fight so better bite your lips and hope he'll stop it soon. Take it as a lesson to learn and be more selective in choosing your next boyfriend. -------- Best regards,

I think I would change my number. Go on with your life, meet new people and don't worrie about what he says. If your friends believe him, then they are not that good of friends to began with. You know what is true and what's not! It seems to me that he is only doing all of this cause he is jealous. GOOD LUCK! 

You need to leave him alone. Avoid him whenever possible.. change your #'s, etc. Act as if he doesn't even exist. Ignore his comments about you and as long as you don't speak to him he can't say anything bad to you. Life is stressful enough.. eliminate people from your life who only add more stress.

Yeah I wouldn't put up with that behavior~ I would move on and find someone that respects you. 

Sounds more like a childish, immature relationship. Neither one of you seems prepared for this. Being alone for a time is not sinful.

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