I've been with this guy for 2yrs. I was coming out of my marriage and fell for this guy( we had this vibe) He was also coming out of a relationship and he wanted to take things slow..he felt I needed time to work out my stuff( having my ex move out, working things out with the kids and just get my life togther) he told me he cared for me but everytime I wanted to make plans and hang out he wouldn't. He said I was too aggressive and I didn't give him a chance to aske me to hang.. I then got really frustrated and would explode on him( I think I took all my anger and frustations out on him) well it's been a rollercoater for the last 2 yrs... he never answers a question..he kinda beats around the bush and that just frustates me even more..When he's not bitching to me it's great we get along and have great times together..but then he'll throw day one in my face and say how could I treat him like that in the beginning, why was I so mean? I'm like "Dude I'm sorry but that was 2 yrs ago..I went to therapy becuz I have alot of childhood issues and that's what was causing alot of my outburst and you would think he'd be there and be happy that I'm trying to fix myself but he is still the same... he won't call me his girlfriend.. only sees me when he wants too.. he tells me he really cares for me and loves me more than I know but never listens to me and most of all he won't forgive me..then I get pissed and tell him he can't jerk me around and why is he playing with my heart and he won't answer.. he'll just flip it on me... Right now he is ignoring me and won't take my calls..I mean he's 37.. Someone help me?