I'm STILL waiting for Gilad Shalit to come home!!
Go Israel!
I am sorry for your loss.
Often times you won't see flowers on a Jewish grave. Flowers are not put because they die; and it's believed a person's soul lives forever. Instead, you might see someone place a rock on the gravestone. Stones are put because they are strong and last forever. So if you want, you can always place a small stone on the grave.
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