Lilly is indeed great 
. We even named her a featured user in the February Newsletter.
The response you recommend is in this question,concerning the rather sad issue of a divorce. Sometimes people address the greater Yedda community, seeking advice and support in a time of need or during a personal crisis. I find it very touching that almost always there is that special person to answer with care and understanding.
I agree that Lilly's answer is exceptional, so thanks from me (and from us us at Yedda) as well.
This is also a good opportunity to remind you and everybody else, that we are always happy to feature content and people, either on the Yedda home page, or in the monthly newsletter, and you are more than invited to send us via email any recommendations or suggestions. We will do our best to implement them appropriately.
Thanks to you both,
Neta