"Nice guys finish last"?

Well, I'm glad you brought up this common mistake...

Too often, us men find a particularly interesting woman, and then come to the logical conclusion that we should probably share how we're feeling about her with… HER. 

Unfortunately, while we think we're saying "I really like you and think you're a special girl," what she's actually hearing is "I am a wuss, I feel like you're too good for me, I'll do whatever you want, I'm no longer a challenge, and you can predict how I'm going to act from now until you decide that you're tired of me..."

I know, sounds harsh. But this is too often the reality of the situation. 

Turn the tables around, start playing hard to get, and NEVER ACT LIKE A WUSS AGAIN PLEASE.

It's a hard job I have poking fun at the pain of others... all for their own good.

in my experience women like mystery, if on a first date you put all your cards on the table then they know everything so whats the point!??

don't say "you are what i've been looking for, your perfect!" this is not only slightly scary but intimidating, just compliment.

also try to compliment the less obvious, if the girl is beautiful and has amazing eyes don't mention this (untill later on) mention something else, also if they seem to be intelligent complment their beauty, if they are beautiful complement their wit, intelligence...

you will then stand out from the usual, and will show you interest in her finer points, but only give a couple to show you do like her.

and don't give too much away, don't ramble on about yourself, give bit's if she asks questions answer, if not move on and save some for another time. it's fine to sit and listen, comfortable silence is a sign of great potentual.

so stay slightly mysterious, don't complement the obvious, and don't ramble on and you will start off fine.

good luck bud!

A woman wants to feel that you made a sincere effort to win her. You should move patiently and consider her feelings. She will give you enough signals to indicate that she likes you and then you can express your feelings for her.

Because you're being too "easy".  Human nature dictates that we want that which we cannot have.  It's ok to let a woman know you like her, just don't go overboard.  We like a little bit of a challenge just like the men.

Truly nice guys don't finish last...we never finish at all.  We get trampled and trod upon by the rush of assholes and bad boys she'd rather be with.  A woman looks at a guy with issues and a bad attitude the same way I look at a $300 rustbucket car and see an asphault melting street machine.  They want someone they have to change...and nice guys are just boring.  I'm covered from wrist to neck to toes in tattoos, drive a lifted 4x4, shave my head, listen to heavy metal, and blow kisses at old men on the freeway...my girlfriend adores me because she's the only one who know's it's ALL a facade