This is young entreprenuer, thanks for all the replies, except one.. haha... I posted this question over 8 months ago and I just wanted to give an update to the situation. For a span of 7 months she would send me a text occasionally. Even in spans as long as 2 months which for the most part --- i ignored completely. One late night after being apart for almost 7 months, she called me saying she missed me but nothing to the extent of saying she was sorry in anyway. She did mention that she might have made a mistake for letting me go of "such a good guy" in my conversation with her.. but by this point, I lost what little faith I had in trying to get back together with her without getting my heart broken again (although I still miss her everyday. She also mentioned that she wanted to meet up for coffee and I simply replied, "let me think about it and get back to you." I never did get back to her (a month and a half went by at this point), and as time passed I slowly felt like I was the one now who made the mistake. So just two weeks ago I sent her a text asking her to go have coffee with me, and she replied "are you sure?". I said yes, and told her I know it took me a while to get back to you but I simply wasn't ready to meet up. She understood and was surprised because the last two times she asked me to meet up I said no or nothing at all. I then told her that I would call her and we could arrange a time and place to meet up. Soon after, I called her just like I said I would (about mid-day), and she didn't answer. Later that night around 10:30pm when I was about ready for bed, she sends me a text that says, "did you call me?" Out of all the things she could have said about not being able to answer the phone, why answer me back with an obvious retorical question?? I never answered back, feeling that she was still trying to play games, and we haven't spoken since. I already know now that if I did still mean anything to her, she would have tried getting back in touch with me about having coffee or anything at all. But she didn't.. so i'm now stuck with the question of trying to initiate contact with her again or if I should just move on for good??
