About Relationships!

OK, you're finding out that to reach a successful relationship is a difficult undertaking. So what else is new! Are you aware how many couples break up, how many divorces are filed each year and how many single moms are struggling to bring up children? We are living in a world with fewer rules and ever more choices.

So, you ask, what does that have to do with me?

Have you ever noticed that when a young woman goes to buy a sweater for example, she might look at sweaters in a half-dozen stores. And then, in the end, she might not buy anything. This is perfectly legal and though as a man you might not want to take the time that this sort of choosing involves, you must recognize that the female sex response differently to the same situations.

So get with it! Understand that your girlfriend is just looking around. And, d'you know something, if you are her top boyfriend, you might come out alright.

Do yourself a favor and let go! Your friends are right. If you are meant for each other - and I do not believe in this dictum - she might come back to you. But in the meantime, start fresh, check out my website for more info on relationships and give her the space she needs.