I might be stepping into some scary territory here (being a man) but I just wanted to add to what DB Lady, and joooosh had to say ( 2 thumbs up to both).
You sound like a beautiful and strong person. With this in mind, you would probably not be satisfied with a good majority of the men 'out there.' I hate to say it, but men have a tendancy to shy away from strong women ( because this scares them). For the most part, they would never admit this. However, that doesn't matter. You will attract the right person to share your life with. Expect nothing less than you would from yourself, and with the above advice, you will be fine. Have confidence and visualize who you want. Feel the energy of this person you are looking for as if he were with you now. This is called 'magnetizing,' and this will help you attract the right guy.
Life is an Adventure, With Regards,
Daniel