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me and my ex decided to be friends and see where it goes. does this letter sound like im trying to pressure him.which is what i dont wanna do.

Dear, Art

  My heart will always have an open door for you waiting for you to come in. Even though you left, I hold no ill feelings towards you. You are my one great love and the one "that got away" if you will let me be a little cliché. There is nothing you could ever do to make me turn my back on you. I am still completely entranced by you and I would wait forever if I knew there was even the smallest of chances for your return.

I understand why you needed to leave and I am not trying to plead for your return to me and our relationship. I am not trying to change your heart of make you feel those feelings which escape you right now. I just wanted you to be aware that if you ever had a change of heart, I will always be here for you.

If someone treats you unkindly, you always have a shoulder to cry on. If someone hurts you, I will always be here to make you feel better. If you are sad or depressed, I will always do my best to cheer you up and make you smile again if that is what you desire. If you are having problems of any sort, I am always here for you and will help you work them out. For any problem, I will do my best to be whatever you need. I still consider you my best friend, and best friends are here for each other.

Of course, I still miss you. I will not deny my feelings for you and my desire for you to return. I think about you every day. I miss our talks, our cuddling, our kissing and the feelings that you can only share with your beloved. I miss it all terribly. I miss seeing your face so much that sometimes I shut my eyes as hard as I can until I can see your perfect face in every detail. I pretend that you are right there, holding me and loving me once again. It helps me cope with the pain I feel.

If ever you should change your mind, don't be afraid to tell me. My feelings will remain the same for a long time and I am sure of this. And I hope this comforts you too, knowing how much I miss you and knowing that there is someone who loves you all of the time, no matter what.

Always Missing You,
debbie

 


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Skitch
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Surrender.  Surrender.  But don't give yourself away . . . .

   ~ Cheap Trick ~

Debbie ~

Don't forget to tell him how you want the relationship to change.  That you want to be able to talk about any problems between the two of you.  Also, let him know what he did for you. "You made me feel loved, safe, respected" etc . . . .  But, don't degrade yourself.  Don't say you will do anything!!!  Just say that you want to have the chance to be what he needs.  You are as important as he is, and this breakup wasn't just your fault.  He never told you he missed you at the biker events, and he never told you that he wanted more of your time.  You can't get what you want unless you ask for it.

Best of luck to you.
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Its never too late to ask.

At first your letter was casual and friendly, then the more you wrote the worse it got, the friendliness turn to begging and a repetition of all you said at first plus, you want to have sex with him again in the worse way hoping it will bring a about a change of heart..BAD LETTER, BAD TIMING..make a clean break and let go. If he wants a platonic friendship. That letter should be torn up.
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well i wanted him to know how i feel all the way. but he got the letter today and he said he made him almost cry he said it was good.

 
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Its never too late to ask.

Well, I 'm glad for ya. Anytime you ask for someone else's opinion it is just that and it doesn't always have to be the right thing. That's the risk you take. The fact it has worked out in your favor is as I previously stated, I'm glad for yaWink
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I am sorry but I agree with Jazzi's first answer .  Letter started out well ,but as it went on it sounded to me like you are begging him .  I don't know what happened between the two of you so I may be off base and hope I am .  Just sounds to me like you have told him what ever he's off doing is ok with you and when he's done he can return to you .   Almost made him cry he said , so is he coming back to you ????
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