Need to Relight His Fire!

Well I have only read one answer but it was so on the mark, but I am still in the dark about why men like to look at porn and not take advantage of what they have available to them 24/7? Beats me! Besides I have seen some of those sites and to me it would be a good way to go on a diet, YUCK! I am in for any suggestions anyone else has. Right now I am going to hit the sheets while they are still warm, with my adorable Hubby in them. Goodmorning! Yes I am nocturnal.  Thank You All, MJL

Hi Oron,

Thank you very much for your reply to my Question regarding a very personal problem, that I decided to bring to a head by asking strangers for advise. I got a charge out of you saying ,"I am adorable" No one has ever said that to me or about me, but you know what? Sometimes after I get all dressed up I feel, "ADORABLE" mostly because I feel young in my heart and I always consider other people before myself. I have never been racial and do help everyone I can , in spite of the fact I lived through , The Great Depression, and have worked very hard since the ripe age of 9YRS, and now have three volunteer jobs. I live on a fixed income and still have a good time as I have an aristrocat sensibility ,whereas I can dine with Royalty and know what to do, even though I prefer just; common, everyday intresting people. I love beautiful things but am not taken up with all the monatary things in life. I have had some of them and find they mean nothing compared to the value of Friends and Family.

To sum it up I can go along with your answer except about the (

PORN)Guess if I hadn't gone to those sites to see for myself what he got out of them, I would be more in compliance with your advise.

Those sites , on a whole are so sickening and disgusting that I feel dirty just looking at them and go take a shower. How could anyone lower themselves like that to put their body, (the temple, that GOD gave them) on exibition in such compromising ways, is way beyond my comprehension. Well to each his own. and I wish you well and happy for now and throughout all eternity.

Always, MJL

Hi,

Just read your last comment and only wish I were about 50 YRS younger! you are what I should have met back then-who knows when ha.

Are you a Dr. of medicine, or Philosophy? I would say the later.

It is weird the way they have you rate a person's remarks on here.I feel it would be better privately ,and then you could post it if you wanted to. Also I am used to giving the rating myself and if the other person doesn't feel it is fair they can ask the Big Shots to re-evaluate it.

Oh well, my Husband is a nice man and I am lucky to have someone who cares enough to stay with someone four years older than himself, so why should I expect a great sex life also? I can still remember how it was when I was in my thirties. Wow, no one could keep up with me. I was very worried that I was abnormal and still believe that. I do everthing backwards; I have high B/P and can't get enough salt. I stay up till 3-4 AM and like to sleep in, so when my kids call to check on me I tell Bob to tell them I am in the shower ,as they do not like me sleeping late. I figure for all those years I had to be on the Nursing Unit at; 6:45 AM every day,including weekends and Holidays.I have had 38 jobs in my lifetime and 16 volunteer jobs not to exclude giving birth five times before the age of 30, raising them, caring for my Parents, and in-laws for over 14 years and having them die in my arms. I also loved and cared for four Foster Children, all of which graduated from High School and still keep in touch. I have had four, near death experiences, the worst was in 1963 when the Coliseum in Indianapolis exploded during an ice show, I was there in the middle of it, where 81 people died including my Mother-in-law. Well now not to seem smug, or self praising, I feel at this age I should be able to do what I want, when I want, and sometimes even get what I want!

I want to go to a great Hotel, bathe and put on a lovely gown, and of course ,some very mild perfume, my favorite being,moderately priced, Halston, or Este Lauder's (pleasures). lay down on a rose petal bed and have a few dozen candles burning, no electricity! Have the Man come through my vision to awaken my senses to his manly smell, lie quietly beside be until we are both able to breathe normally, then have him  explore my entire being, not just my body ,but escape into my mind. not mindful that I am no longer young or inexperienced or that my body is not as supple as a young Girl, but at the same token, very feminine and

sexy and ready! Then it happens, the out of mind and body experience of man and woman in complete unisom with each other to take me to a place I have never yet been, completely out of my senses. The ultimate CLIMAX. Perhaps I would die at that moment, I would be ready for it and

if my casket is open I will have the biggest smile on my face of any corpse you will ever see.

I am so sorry I got carried away, but when I talk to you I feel as if I can say what is on my mind, if not then please excuse me. I am trying to write Children's books but this letter would be banned for Children and probably most adults, but not YOU.

I will write a good novel before I die or have that above experience, so perhaps you will but a copy or better still I will send you the first! Ha.

Please feel free to e-mail me on my regular mail; mjnanday@aol.com  I am the only person that can view that site so have no fear. No I am not hitting on you as I know how young you must be, nor do I hit on anyone as I do believe in a strict moral code, and have never crossed it.

Thank you so much for your short but beautiful remarks, and taking the time to read this. guess you have me figured out by now as a person that has a lot to say. I pray I haven't bored you. I pray GOD will BLESS you with a wonderful life and that you make the most out of every day HE chooses to give you.

Sincerely,Always, Mary Jayne