Mom and interviews, etc

Your mom probably has some good insight regarding how to dress for a job interview so I would listen to her suggestions but the decision is yours. My advice is for you to remember that you are going for a job interview and not on a date, to a party or other setting where you might want to dress to impress a guy.

Every employer wants employees to make a good impression but when "your look" takes away from your effectiveness or creates a distraction in the work place that's not what you want.

PS; if your mom were to go on a job interview she might dress differently. I'm trying to imagine interviewing a woman in capri pants and golf tees. Hmmmmmmmmmm

I'm sure your mom has your best interests in mind. You didn't describe what you wore, but there are certain items of clothing that are appropriate for interviews, and some that are not, depending on what the interview is for.  You wouldn't interview for a professional position wearing capries, although for other positions, they might be acceptable in your area.  I've found different areas of the country have different standards for what is right and what is inappropriate.  Look around and see what others are wearing, and remember that you don't get a second chance to make a first impression.  Always opt for the nicest outfit you have. Good luck on getting your job.

I am sorry but your question sounds as if it was written by someone much younger. If you've gone to school, married, had kids and done the things most golks our age have done, you are experienced enough to make your own decision. Listen politely to your mother's advice and then wear what you deem to be appropriate.

Someone once said; "a son is a son until he takes a wife, but a daughter is a daughter all her life." It sounds as if this is the relationship you have and that's not all bad. She's interested, she cares so enjoy her while you still have her.

Agreed!  We all mistakenly thought you were much younger.  You are able to make up your own mind about what to wear, and should do so without feeling any guilt whatsoever.  Wear what you feel comfortable with and if your mom complains, just take it wih a grain of salt, smile, and tell her, "Yes, I probably should, but I love this outfit." Then move on.  Good luck to you and I hope you get the job of your dreams.

dear, i cannot believe you are still wrestling with this silly juvenile problem.  if i remember correctly, your mother is in her 80s and you are in your 50s. 

 this behavior is pure nonscence.  stop listening to your mother. 

 you are choosing, for whatever reason, to stay her "little" child.  You, yourself are choosing to behave the way you do. 

 If you want help....you need to grow up and do it now...you are growing older day by day.  As we all are.  Why be so hung up and miserable over such a silly thing.  good grief voterperson!