My Mom died - I have terrible dreams about her now!!

Do not fear your dreams, I feel the only reason you go through this is because you think you did not do enough for her. Even though you were good friends and you love each other you fear you could have done more or prevented something to keep her here with you. She don't hate you, it's your concience bothering you because you miss her. Just grive her as long as you need and you will see that your dreams will get better, she's fine don't worry, all will be fine you just need time.

HI

<I don't know why you are dreaming what you are dreaming. I can tell you that when my little sister died, she was also sick but died suddenly. I didn't expect it. It's been 6 years. I can tell you the dreams I had of her like that were because I didn't want to believe it at first. I was sort of pushing away in my dreams. It's very hard to accept. I still grind my teeth at night and have anxiety attacks but my dreams have gotten better. I think in time you will dream wonderful dreams. A few weeks after she died I was dreaming and didn't realize it until I woke up. I would dream that we were driving together, having coffee. It became peaceful. I loved dreaming of her after that. From time to time I have a weird dream but for the most part my sister and I travel in my dreams and have fun!! You need to grieve now however you can. Try to drink chamomile or take a hot bath. It helps calm your nerves.....in time you will be fine, she is at peace>