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coriandermay

life is too short for drama and petty things, so kiss slowly, laugh insanely, love truly, and forgive quickly.

Mixed feelings

well I have been with my BF for a little over 2 yrs and had a bad break up a while back which totally broke me to pieces.........he had told me at the time I should have just left and not even given him another chance.........I think I should have left but yet I still want to be with him at the same time........I do love him but yet he broke my heart and who's to say he won't do it again ya know. I really want to be with him but a part of me doesn't trust him b/c of what happened..... and am not sure what to do about it.


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Love is the battery of life....

Hi, ---------- Any good relation is based on 4 pillars: Trust + Openess + Communications + respect. Your boyfriend damaged at least one of those pillars, no wonder you have these dual thoughts / feelings. You have to ask yourself: Can I re-build the trust between the 2 of us and create good relations with him ? If the answer is a clear "yes" than forget about the past, forgive him and concentrate on building those relations in a healthy way. If the answer is "no" or "I am not sure" or "yes ..... but" than better move on and find someone that will deserve you. ----------- Best regards,

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Sounds like your relationship is a very rocky one.You either need to end it for good or learn to forgive & forget. Trust is earned.So instead of dwelling on the past,allow him to earn your trust again.If you live in the past,your relationship will never move forward.
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i think everyone deserves a 2nd chance,who knows this time he will be good and will not break your heart? just follow your heart if you cant live without him then i suggest you to give him another chance..let go of what kills you and hold on to what keeps you breathing!
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