It sounds like you need a break from him! jkgrandma is right on the money - that IS abuse, and you don't need it. There's nothing in this world worth putting up with that kind of treatment.
This isn't about that dish, anyway. It isn't ever about the dish, or whatever little thing sets him off each time. It isn't about you, period. It's about the fact that he's an abuser, and it's very unlikely that he'll ever change. Walk away!
