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This bbq, is it going to mostly be adults? You don't hear of a bbq for children this age very often. Is the meat going to be "pulled pork" so there is only meat seasoned with a little bbq sauce and then put in hamburger buns and more sauce added if they want it? This is good for small hands and you can get small hamburger buns at most markets. Have dill pickles,and potato chips and the kids and adults can pig out without wasteing a lot of food.A pork roast cooked real tender and chopped up will feed a lot of people.Potato salad,slaw,or even mac and cheese is good for kids. Then you will have cake and ice cream so they have a large meal right there.Adults will enjoy too without having to be washing lots of hands and faces. You will do fine. Have fun, that's what it's about.
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