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katmando
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Men and disorders

 

Is there a disorder for men who can not hold a job, relationship,

live with/love?  women,  to help pay rent.

 work low paying jobs, have kids can't support, hook up with women in bad relationships, obsessed with having more kids,

stalk

women refuse to speak to them?

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Karen
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You can swim all day in the sea of knowledge, and never get wet.

Yes, Hes called a loser.Some men are just plain and simple lazy, and selfish and dont want to do anything, and expect the woman to do it all. They have no self respect nor do they respect other people. They have no motivation, because they just dont care.
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this guy is dangerous and I want to tell the woman he is with now.

she thinks he rescued her and he goes from one woman to the next

getting money and owes all kinds of people money. will he ever get caught for doing this to women.

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Life is like a Vapor, here then gone

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I would tell the woman,period. If they cant see, these problems,for themselves yet,they will learn. Some woman never see it, they just put up with it, because they feel  theydont deserve any better.They dont feel they can get anyone better, and if people give him money, they probbaly know they will never ever see it back. All you can do is,is talk with them. He is a LOSER.
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can't tell her. only hope is that she sees, she has taken huge risks jumping into this without knowing much other than he said he would rescue her. instead he got her pregnant. he tells her all kinds of lies

about women he owes money to and has created lots of jealously. she will is not able to listen.  maybe she will get hurt by him to see.

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Life is like a Vapor, here then gone

You can swim all day in the sea of knowledge, and never get wet.

sometimes people have to learn the hard way.And then sometimes they never learn. I have a friend who is with an abusive person, and I have been telling her for 10 years now, and she wont leave him. I try to build up her self-esteem, but it doesnt work, some woman feel safe with a controlling man. Its sad to see them go through this but, its there choice. Just be there for her when you can
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unfortunatley I can not be there for her.  I was there in her place right before her.  I do not like controlling people, it was a very wierd

situation with me, I was not in a relationship per say,and it was not until I decided to quietly have no contact I felt manipulation physical, financial and emotional.. I was abused.  I read the Gift of Fear and it was amazing how much my instinct was right.  He only watches me or says irrate things when others are not looking or around.  Not sure what the

hold is on me but I am hoping he will stop... he is addicted to the chase

and I am not responding to him at all.

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