Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship

I don't have to read this book.  I know how to keep my man.  I show him love, respect and I define boundaries.  If he cheats on me once, he's out.  I have no tolerance for stupidity.

    That is my opinion.

I have not read it.

But I have to say upon seeing the title; I would not want to.

I find it offensive. I have never considered myself a "doormat" OR a "bitch." I want my partner to respect me as well as to love me. And in my opinion, neither of those self descriptive words the author used would encourage him to do so.

Any woman with a brain and a sense of self respect wouldn't need this book, because she already knows how to get what she wants, and keep it; without playing games, changing or hiding who she is to do it.

No i havnt read this book...but it sounds pretty good! I might have to give it a try...are u having some trouble or are you just thinking about buying this book?

I havent read the book because for one I am not a door mat to anyone.

For two  I dont take no shit from anyone . If you dont have the love and respect going on hey its time to walk.

Oh! its not about being a heartless  bitch its all about what you think of yourself and what you want for yourself

.And for me It took quite a few years to learn it starts and ends with me. I hope that makes sence.

  I find the title extremely offensive . I have never been a door mat for anyone and never will be .  And I have never had to be a bitch about it either .  Holding your own with your Man , this isn't a contest or a game .  True love flows natural , true love is respect , trust , fidelity two become one .  I have zero tolerance for disrespect and infidelity .  A smart woman chooses the type of man that makes this book unneccessary .  I know I did and couldn't be happier .

DB , JK and Uptoya, Thumb Up !

Leona, Then stop picking men who don't have morals.  How simple is that!  You and your Yahtzee club ladies are the ones making the bad choices.  You still need some good psychotherapy to figure out why you keep picking losers.  Now I think even if you went to another part of town, or even left town, you are still attracted to, and pick, the scum of the earth.  Then you cry about the way you are treated.  Your anger brings you to yedda to bitch and complain, and disrespect the people who have it all together.  And that's because you are jealous of what they have that you don't.  That's the ability to pick a good, loving, faithful man.  That is your big problem, Leona.  You just don't know how to pick em, so you take it out on every one else and do your rude name calling.  You are the only one who needs to have your men followed, because they are not trustworthy.  You picked them, now you deal with them.  I will tell you again, FIND A GOOD PSYCHOTHERAPIST so you can figure out how to have more self esteem, and learn how to pick good men.  Learn to leave the trash men where they belong, in the trash.

Best Regards,  Dr. Phyllis, PC

Leona,

    I think that you have been cheated by your man because he didn't really love you, he didn't find you to be the woman that he wanted to wake up to every morning, that he didn't respect you enough, that he didn't value his relationship with you,  and that he did not get challenged to keep you.  Men like challenges.  They get tired of women who freely throw their bodies and generous of sex even if

they were doing other women.  Leona, have that sense of self -respect and you will see a big difference on how a man treats you.  Don't act like you are CHEAP and lacking self-worth.

     Sometimes you need to kick a man out of your life if he keeps disrespecting you.  Don't act so desperate.  There are a lot of other big fishes in the sea.

Hi Equus, Jkgrandma and Uptoya,

   I was able to give JK a thumb up but I could not give Equus and Uptoya a thumb up each.  This is getting ridiculous.  I could actually give one thumb up in a post.  I hope that Yedda will be  able to fix this problem.

    JKG,  It's so funny how you were able to coin the meaning of  her name, Leona.

That is pretty clever.