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Marriage after infedelity!

Is it possible to make a marriage work after infedility?


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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
Yes, and there are many living examples to it.  It requires several conditions: 2 sensetive & smart people, a real regret, a real mutual will to bring the relations back to track, building good relations (that means building: Trust + Openess + Communications + Respect), and rebuilding the love between them. 
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I know that it is possible but very very hard. It all depends on how well a person can forgive and forget and if the guilty party is truly sorry. I know personally that I could not continue with a relationship where the other party has had total disregard of my feelings and love. This is one thing that I could never get over, but I know it has been successfully accomplished.


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Fool me once,

shame on you!!

Fool me twice,shame on me!

yes,it is possible if that person truly regrets what he had done...but trusting again is another issue..


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Live simply, love generously and  care deeply.

 

Marriage will be successful again after infedility if:

   both will agree that they will try to make this marriage work

   if the cheated partner will forgive and try to forget the offence

   if the cheater mate will promise not to cheat again and really regrets

          the wrongdoing

   if the cheater will make amends for his/her mistakes

   if the cheater is going to destroy all pictures, letters,e-mails

     or anything that will remind him/her of the person cheated with

  if the cheater will totally forget the person that he/she cheated with.

  That both couples will have marriage counseling together.


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Trust no one and Respect is earned not given!!!!

In my opnion no there is no way to get over it..It has already happened so there is no way to erase it from your mind is there?!U will never trust the person again and U will always wonder where they are and what they are doing .. If they are late then U will think the worse and then it will cause problems between the 2 of U.. So to try and get over something like that then i wouldent even try ..it wont happen..If they were in Love with U in the first place it would of never happened!! It's that simple.. If people try and tell U other wise then they are full of sh@* !! If like said U had a good relashionship in the beging it wouldnet of happened..Good Luck..Peace.... TLA...


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