About your first question: I'm not sure. I think it's not going to engage at all, because I think reverse gear is not synchronized, so you'll need a lot of force to engage it. It will probably make you understand something isn't right...
About your second question: it's possible to shift without using the clutch, but it's tricky. Disengaging a gear without the clutch is not so difficult, but in order to engage the next one you'll have to match the revs exactly and it's not an easy thing to do, it takes practice in it's quite likely that before you're good at it, the gearbox will be damaged. It also has no advantage with today's cars, so I really can't recommend trying it.