As a Canadian woman I hope I am able to fit in your western woman standards. Anyways about the hair issue there are  totally different opinions  between the feminine side. I personally have no problem with a hairy chest . I wouldn't want my man to try imitating me. Hair is a macho, manly sign which distinguishes us woman from them (I am not saying I have anything against bald man). I have seen and felt man with shaved chests and man with so called hairy chests , I must say that after the shaving the skin doesn't feel as soft and gentle that was a big disadvantage. What is the next step man will start shaving their arms? I am up for the natural look and the so called "beauty standards" are so pathetic! I mean once back in the Middle Ages big fat voluptuous woman were considered the prettiest and today?