MISDIAGNOSED?? I need help please, I dont know what to do!!

Maybe it is ADHD.  There are adult forms.  You can find out more at:

http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/common/mentalhealth/kids/636.printerview.html

It also has a list on this page of what the problem could be if it is not ADHD.  There are many reasons including lead exposure and thyroid and hormone issues.

Hi,

    Profitbob gave you a great answer, 2 thumbs up to him.  I think that you need to see a Psychiatrist so he can help you with your symptoms.

I think it definitly sounds like you have ADHD. Who prescribed the valium, and have you talked to them about putting you on a different medication for the symptoms you are describing? Valium is merely a strong tranquilizer. It sounds as though are flying in several different directions, and need something more then just a sedative to get you back in balance. Make an appt. with your doctor as soon as possible, make a detailed list of all your symptoms and feelings, your outbursts, your forgetfulness, etc. If who you are presently seeing doesn't take the matter seriously, then don't hesitate to find another doctor or therapist. You have some serious issues going on here, and they need to be addressed before you fly off the handle completely. And if you don't want to do it for yourself, do it for your children, and anyone else in your life that you are going to drive away if you don't get help soon. The meds you're on are obviousy not working, especially if you have been on them as long as you have. Your body builds up a tolerance to long term medications, and may need to be increased or changed completely. And if as you say, they have never really worked anyway, why are you still taking them? SIX years is a long time to be taking a drug you feel in not working for you. Have you not spoken to your doctor at all about this? 

Hi Likamarie,

Yes, I think you need to see a doctor about your problem, as a priority, but have you thought about doing some type of meditation or yoga to calm and focus your mind and plenty of exercise so that your body will be tired at night, helping you to sleep, as you sort out your drug dependence. Lots of good fresh food and water will help your body cope with the drugs.Take care and think positive.

Dear Likamarie82, it does sound as if you have a form of ADD or ADHD. But it also sounds a little more than that, I feel that you need some counceling. It seems there's a hidden rage just beneath your surface, could simply be great frustration due to having ADD, but you need it checked out. I also agree with the response profitbob gave as he said it could be organic, meaning posioning, hormonal, etc. You need to start with a good dr. & go from there, tell him or her just what you told us. If you're not taken seriously, go to another dr. I'm going to be praying for you to find the avenue of help you need & get some answers. Remember, whatever is going on, there's help & you're not alone. Trishahearon

wow! Sounds like my life all over. I have the same problems. I was diagnosed bi polar with acute anxiety disorder and OCD. Sounds like that could be your problem. Also I found out that I might be suffering from post traumatic stress syndrome instead of being bi polar. Right now i am only taking Inderol for anxiety and it seems to be working great. There is alot of help out there so dont give up. Try out different doctors. I have dealt with this for 30 years so dont be discouraged. Dont let anyone tell you that there is nothing wrong. Keep seeking treatment. It will pay off. Good Luck and God Bless!

Dear Likea,  As you describe yourself, you certainly sound like you have many, many symptoms of ADHD.  The information about testing for ADD and for treating ADD is very available.  These days there is no reason to live as miserably as you are.  Many doctors are available  who specialize in ADD medication and I highly recomend that you find one.  Then a therapist can help you get "things" back in place for you at home and in your important relationships and friendships. If you do not have medical insurance, find a mental health agency near you and they can help you on a sliding scale. ( you only pay what you can afford)  Good luck and remember that help is certainly out there.