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Jadel
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Christmas Key to Heart

vI gave the man that I love a key for Christmas, [key to my heart] He knows it is the key to my heart and when he received it, he said "I feel the same way" yet we have never told each other. Does that mean he loves me?


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OronD
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


Yes most probably..... But why be in doubt ? you have all the rights to talk (openly and deeply) with the person you gave the key to your heart about your mutual feelings.......  Talk to him, don't be shy, don't hide  your love behind closed doors...... Better be proud of your love and be open with the guy you love.....
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Jadel
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Thank you. He will not say the words. Unless he does, neither will I.

I have tried to "pry" it out of him! lol, but no such luck. I don't want him to say anything he doesn't mean. He is different from anyone I've ever met in that he doesn't use words of endearment etc.
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Jadel
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C'mon people, doesn't anyone else have anything to offer? I am not a kid, but in my 40's, he is too. We both have grown children. You would think I would have more insight and would if it pertained to someone else. Personally, yes, I think he loves me. We have been together for 17 months. We get along great, share interests, and the sex is very good. Lots of passion and caring. The problem is, actually it just may be my problem....I need to hear the words. Am I wrong? I confronted him about this just the other night 1-17-08. He asked if I wanted words, well, yes I do, but more importantly, I want whatever is in the heart. I've never met a guy that wouldn't say it. What you you think? Thanks.
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Katierose
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He's probably being as shy as you are about actually saying "I love you" but yes, i would say he feels the same and he's waiting for you to say the words first and does not want to face the possibility of rejection.
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Maur57
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Learn to be a good listner.

My ex loved me to death and I loved him and would say it constantly. When he wouldn't say it back i said why don't you tell me you love me when I tell you al the time and he would say the words get worn out. I would rather show it in the things I do for you.

 
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jazzi
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Its never too late to ask.

Maybe he does or maybe he doesn't. So ask for a better explanation. Say, you don't want to have thoughts or feelings that haven't been said or shown from him. Don't hold your breath waiting for an answer either, just go on as normal hopefully he'll come around.
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